S2 Ep 4 We Don't Want The Representative FT Jelani Maleeq

In this episode of XL Tribesmen, hosts XL and Jelani Maleeq delve into the concept of presenting a “representative” self in relationships. They argue that many people adopt a curated persona to impress others, often creating a false sense of who they are. This “agent” persona can lead to misunderstandings and disappointment when the true self is eventually revealed.

The hosts emphasize the importance of authenticity and encourage listeners to embrace their genuine selves. They discuss the negative impact of hiding one’s true nature and the potential for long-term damage to relationships. The episode also touches on personal growth and the importance of self-awareness in developing healthy connections.

S2 Ep 4 We Don’t Want The Representative FT Jelani Maleeq

Key Points:

The “agent” persona: Many people present a carefully crafted image of themselves to others, often hiding their true selves.
Authenticity is key: The hosts emphasize the importance of being genuine and honest in relationships.
The impact of childhood: Personal experiences and childhood traumas can influence how individuals present themselves in relationships.
Self-awareness: Understanding one’s own motivations and behaviors is crucial for personal growth and healthy relationships.

Ultimately, the episode promotes the idea of genuine connection and encourages listeners to strive for authenticity in their interactions with others.

S2 Ep 4 We Don’t Want The Representative FT Jelani Maleeq

S2 Ep:4 We Don't Want The Representative Lets Connect On Purpose With Jelani Maleeq – XL Tribesmen

Every episode I bring to you is completely out of passionate. So I hope that explains my absence. Sometimes I’d like to produce more podcasts on a weekly basis but like I said before I have to come off of inspiration and sometimes I’m just simply not inspired to create. However, with our special guest this episode I was totally inspired to create. Actually I created a bunch of content this weekend and one of those is this podcast I also did a video with you guys seem to love. I’m so excited about that, and I cant wait to do more videos for you guys. In this episode we talk about bringing your representative. So for those of you who aren’t aware a representative is the person that you bring on a first date for example and who isn’t the truest version of who you are. It’s just an extension of you but not all of you. A lot of people do it when they go on a first date because they want to impressed the person but then a few dates later the truest you comes out. For example you’re not always cleanest or you may not always be well-dressed however, when you went on the first date you were very dapper, hair clean, fingernails cut dressed to the nines and that’s the representative you brought on the date with you. However you are that's not cool dude. Being your true self helps you avoid the classic line " you changed your not the same person I meet." So listen below and tell me how you feel in the comments I’d like to understand more of why people decide to bring their representatives . ______________________________________________________________ Thank you very much for listening to this weeks episode. Don’t forget you can help support our brand by becoming a patron. Go to https://www.patreon.com/xltribe to join the movement. If you liked our podcast please share it on your social media channels to help get the word out. Follow Us Instagram http://instagram.com/xltribe/ Follow Us Facebook http://facebook.com/xltribe/ Follow Us Twitter http://twitter.com/xltribe Follow Us Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/xltribe/ Visit The Blog https://xltribe.com/ — Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/xltribe/support

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